《女兒想做男孩 兒子想做女孩——從西方趨勢及本地故事看跨性別 附性心理教育指引及建立孩子性別自信的小貼士》

香港性文化學會有限公司、香港心性教育協會 出版

「基督教鄧侃筠主任陳由廣校長母女紀念教育基金」資助

出版日期: 2024 年 6 月

國際書號: 978-988-7052-20-3
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Foreword by Dr Melvin Wong

First, this is a well-researched book on the controversies over the complexities of gender dysphoria disorder (previously gender identity disorder) and the “Gender Affirmative Care” lies, perpetrated by most western nations beginning in Europe and now overwhelming cultures and politics in the United States and Australia. The critical reader is rewarded with the truths of gender identity development and how it can go wrong. In order to serve the best interest of patients and their families well; political popularity and expediency should never surpass the critical evidence of medical science, doing so, clinicians and policy makers become complicit in further harming these vulnerable patients and parents that they are trying to heal. Patients are hurt and damaged twice; beginning with innocent children, naïve adolescents and confused young adults whose legitimate anguish become quasi “willing” politicized-pawns for the profit of drug companies and medical establishments.

Junk (fake, fraudulent) science-based recommendations of the politicized policy makers are exposed in this book and debunked effectively and eloquently. This is a source book to help you become an effective apologist to win a public debate.

Second, the value of this book is not only in the scientifically well-research foundation, but also in offering the feedbacks and comments from patients who regretted their “affirmative care” and chose to detransition; as well as the reality of pain, suffering and anguish of their parents, family members and love-ones.

For teachers and clinicians: many are not aware of the treatability of Gender Dysphoria. This book contains priceless case examples of successful recovery from this disorder when diagnosed early and with the involvement of parents in a family-systemic therapeutic process where fathers can step up to make an effort to be emotionally reconnect/re-attach with their children. This highlights the core truth with “媽媽造男孩 爸爸造男人 Mother makes a boy Father makes a man”. These case histories can only be documented and distributed in non-western countries (Asia) where the freedom in offering treatment, and seeking treatment are not yet suppressed. This book may hold the position as the first resource on the global academic stage on the subject of Gender Dysphoria Care!

I believe the honest and impartial Gender Identity strugglers and their love ones, including teachers, clinicians will receive hope, freedom, direction and healing just by reading and examining this well written book!

Third, Hong Kong is emerging as a global location where the limitations, myths and lies of the appallingly (undemocratic) restrictive “Affirmative Gender” ideology is intellectually examined, exposed, challenged and debunked. This makes me grateful and inspired as a native of Hong Kong. What a great honor!

Congratulations! Our Hong Kong team has successfully overcome the fear of political correctness, persecution and academic intolerance and exclusion. This is freedom Indeed!

推薦序一（黃偉康博士，美國加州持牌執照臨床心理學家）

中文翻譯：

首先，本書深入研究了有關性別焦慮症（過去被稱為性別認同障礙）以及「性別肯定照護」謊言(“Gender Affirmative Care” lies)的爭議。這些思想，最初從歐洲崛起，及後蔓延至大部分西方國家，現已深深影響著美國和澳洲的文化和政治。對於有批判思維的讀者來說，他們將從本書了解到有關性別認同理論發展的真相，以及其錯謬之處。為了患者及其家人的最大利益，這些理論的政治普及性和便利性絕不能超過關鍵的醫學證據，否則臨床醫生和政策制定者將成為進一步傷害這些脆弱患者和其父母的幫兇。患者將受到二次傷害：首先是無辜的兒童、還有天真的青少年和困惑的年輕成年人。承受著痛苦的他們將半「自願」地成為為藥廠和醫療機構的龐大利潤而生的棋子。

本書揭示了某些政策制定者基於垃圾（假的、詐騙的）科學所作的政治化建議，並以有效而雄辯的方式將其揭穿。本書可以幫助您在公共辯論中取勝和有效辯護。

其次，本書的價值不限於其極佳的科學研究基礎，更在於提供了那些後悔接受「肯定照護」並選擇返回原生性別的患者的反饋和評論；以及他們的父母、家人和所愛之人在現實中所經歷的痛苦、苦難和痛楚。

對於教師和臨床醫生來說，許多人對性別焦慮症的可治療性並不了解。這本書亦包含了成功從這種障礙中康復的寶貴案例。這案例的成功有賴於及早診斷、父母的整個治療過程中的參與，以及父親在家庭系統中，努力和他們的子女在情感上重新連結/重新連接。這凸顯了一個核心真理：「媽媽造男孩，爸爸造男人」。這些案例和病履歷史只能在非西方國家（亞洲）記錄和傳播，因為該處對治療的提供和尋求尚未受到壓制。這本書可能在全球學術舞台上成為關於性別焦慮症照護的首個資源！

我相信，誠實和公正的性別認同掙扎者及其所愛之人，包括教師和臨床醫生，只要閱讀和研究本書，將會獲得希望、自由、方向和療癒！

第三，香港正成為一個全球熱點，要在知識上審視這種既不民主又駭人聽聞的「性別肯定」意識形態，去揭穿、揭露、挑戰它的局限、神話和謊言。作為香港人，這使我感到感激和振奮。真是何其榮幸！

恭喜！我們的香港團隊成功克服了對政治正確、迫害、學術不寬容和排斥的恐懼。這真正是自由！